Choose my own life...

I never thought about this issue before until my buddy Nate gave me a good advice about that. At age of 32, for many people they probably already have experienced lots of things in their life and maybe started another phase of their career. I am not saying I don't have a good life right now..actually, my families and friends back in Taiwan think I do have a decent life, of course, from their definition of the "good" life... finished graduate study, got a good "9-5" job, got some savings and ready for a house... yeah, it seems so nice like what my family planned for me already. That's not wrong, I do appreciate them. But just got me so confused sometimes. I didn't choose the major by my own..actually my paents sort of decided my future for me.. I remembered I told them I want to go to art school, but they got so mad about it so I turned into businese and computer (I didn't have money to pay all tuition). ... anyway, what I am trying to say is that my life was all planned and all I had to do was just do my best to follow it. Now, after working for a while, left my family back in Taiwan and live in the U.S. by myself.. I seem not so happy about I have been through... I should have done what I liked long time ago.. I don't want to give you a long story about the "shit" because that's all past. But after having a conversation with my good buddy Nate, he gave me some good points of view. He is not only a cool guy but also a very good friend that will share his real life experience and advice with me. He is right, I should choose my own life right now and do what I want to do. I know, it sounds very simple for many people, but for me, it's not that easy. I have live in a "planned life" for so long. But with some helps, I think I can do it and will do it. That's about it. I just want to share my thought and experience with anyone who are interested in reading it. If you get same experience, just post your comment....

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